Here is a simple yet profound truth. Whether we are called daughter, uncle, best friend or SVP, digital content creator, or intern, these titles are not our identity. The life and career labels that we carry and the roles we play in our families and friend groups do not define who we are as people. In fact, the roles we play in life should and do hopefully change throughout our lives and career.
Here are seven (7) mind-shifting ideas to help you see the big picture of who you really are and more importantly who you can become.
1. You are greater than the role you play: We all play “roles” in our family, with friends and although you may not think it – even at work. Just because you’ve always been the “helper” who works tirelessly without any recognition doesn’t mean that’s the ONLY way people can see you. You always have the power to change your role but teaching others how to see you.
2. Your work does not equal your worth: Imagine a world where you would always be rewarded for every contribution you make. Unfortunately, real-life doesn’t work that way. Most people are underpaid, overworked, and not properly acknowledged for what they do.
3. You have infinite potential: The biggest thing keeping you from your dreams is you NOT believing that it’s possible. You have to believe in your personal (infinite) potential and “fake it till you make it.”
4. Learn from those who don’t treat others with the professionalism and respect they deserve: We all have had to work with mean girls or guys that are jerks. Remember negative people have a purpose – to teach you – what NOT to do to others now and in the future.
5. Your title is what they call you at work – it is not who you are in life: A title is a very subjective thing. Whatever they call you at work banker, vet tech, teacher, or even convict – NEVER let others’ labels define you.
6. You are better than your worst past mistake: In theory, you should live life with few or no regrets. However, we all have made mistakes and done things we are not proud of. What happened in the past does NOT dictate your life in the future.
7. You are not going to do what you currently do forever: Nothing lasts forever unless you want them to. The great thing about life, career, business, and more is you make a choice (give it all that you’ve got) and when that choice no longer works out – you make another choice.
You are more than the assistant manager, development officer, recently unemployed “person.” You are not just the roles you live or the work you currently do. This week remind yourself of one of these “maxims” – creative goals/ideas.