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Seven Things When It Comes to Reflecting on the Past and Planning for the Future

Whether it’s a birthday, the date when you started your job or business, or even your marriage – anniversaries, are an ideal time to evaluate how far you’ve come, where you are, and where you want to be.

Last April, we launched our first interview with former TIME editor and head of editorial and partnerships at Flipboard, Josh Quittner. Over the past year, we’ve offered amazing conversations with many compelling personalities, fantastic feedback from fans and followers, and candid advice and resources to help people better navigate career choices and changes.

In celebration of The Living on Purpose Project’s one year anniversary, we’re sharing some of our favorite unconventional wisdom from our interviewees, as well as updates on what’s been keeping them busy since we last spoke to them.



1. Josh Quittner, Head of Editorial and Partnerships, Flipboard:
“You need to ‘put your antenna up’ – that is, be receptive and start looking for new opportunities to get you to where you want to be. We don’t put our antennas up when things are good because there is no reason to. But the moment things aren’t going well you have to start looking and asking yourself what would I like to do now? And, what would I be good at now? Putting your antenna up means you’re looking, but also realizing that things will most likely not come in a familiar or expected form.” What Josh has been up to: I’ve been working with the China team at Flipboard and doing more international business development, which has stretched me a bit outside my “zone.” In my spare time, I’ve been working with some guys who are incarcerated at nearby San Quentin. They are trying to produce their first magazine. It’s a spin-off from the San Quentin News, one of the oldest newspapers in the prison system. The magazine will be called Wall City, and I can’t wait to see it. Follow Josh on Twitter at @twittner
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2. Tony Rocco, Middle School Teacher, Photographer, Educator and Executive Director of Photography Without Borders:
“I was lost in high school. So I understand how difficult it can be to figure out what you want to do in life [at any age]. I tell people there’s no one way to do things. People will try to give you advice saying that you must do this, that, or the other thing. It can be confusing because no one really knows what’s expected [or required] to be successful … I had to stumble through life for a while until I figured things out.

Others continue to remind me that we need to give ourselves time to figure out our path and our purpose – in our own way and in our own time.” What Tony has been up to: Last summer I took four “Shutterbug” groups of students from Philadelphia to Columbia for our amazing cultural exchange program. One organization that we worked with, El Centro Colombo Americano in Medellin, has invited us back this year to replicate our program in four other major cities throughout Columbia. We will provide workshops that teach children how to tell stories with photography – spending two weeks in each city. Our program continues to be a huge success. Follow Tony on LinkedIn at /Tony Rocco
3. Stephanie Abrams, Co-Founder and CEO, Socialfly: “I went on many auditions but did not get every part. I learned that it’s okay if people say no because it means that something bigger and better was coming. It’s really helped me in my career because so much of my business is sales. People simply are not going to say yes all the time. I’ve learned not to take a “no” personally.” What Stephanie has been up to: I am excited to share that we released our first book, Like, Love, Follow. The Entreprenista’s Guide to Using Social Media to Grow Your Business. Our company continues to grow month over month and we have signed incredible new clients over the past year including Premio Foods, Canada Mark Diamonds & Cargo Cosmetics. Follow Stephanie on Twitter: @stephjillabrams and @socialfly

4. Sonia Sanchez, Poet, Mother, Professor, and National and International Lecturer on Black Culture and Literature, Women’s Liberation, Peace and Racial Justice: “Read everything, anything that is in print. Whether it’s related to your work, or life, or the business behind what you do – read it. Get a job that supports both your intentions of being a poet or novelist or whatever you want to be, but that also supports yourself and family. Make sure it’s a job you like that also, hopefully, gives you chances to do the things you really want. And, gather around supporters who will help encourage the way you live and who will respect the love that you feel for your art.” What Sonia has been up to: I have started a fellowship with the Schomburg Center in Harlem working with the national research library on a variety of efforts. I recently published SOS – Calling All Black People – A Black Arts Movement Reader, which includes works of fiction, poetry, and drama in addition to critical writings on issues of politics, aesthetics, and gender. And, last month the PBS World Channel premiered, “BaddDDD Sonia Sanchez” a documentary that includes readings and jazz-accompanied performances of my work. The documentary examines my contributions to the world of poetry, Black Arts Movement and leadership role in African American culture over the last half century. Follow Sonia on Twitter at @poetsanchez

5. Alex Faille, Associate Buyer at West Elm at Williams-Sonoma, Inc.: “Often we want to do what our peers are striving for and doing. Luckily the friends around me were on focused career paths. The people you hang around should be pulling you up. The worst possible thing to do working in this city is to forget that having a job here is a blessing. I feel like there are too many people who feel like they’re ‘owed.’ Those people don’t last long in this town. When you remember that you are blessed to work at what you love/want to pursue, you will work harder because you know there are lots of people waiting for your spot. Even though I like comfort, I have learned that the smoothest course isn’t always the best path.” What Alex has been up to: I am continuing my career in merchandising/buying with West Elm and enjoying life in Brooklyn! I’ve spent the most time this past year being inspired by health, fitness, food, dating, and travel. 2015 was a “yes” year where I tried to say “yes” to most things that came my way. I had WAY too much fun, but plan to do the same for 2016. Follow Alex on Instagram at @afaille

6. Courtney Spritzer, Co-Founder and COO, Socialfly: “The last thing, and probably the most important, is to always remember that the things you do on social media are public, so you want to make sure you’re always putting your best foot forward. When you are looking for a job, people will absolutely Google you. If they find something unprofessional it could kill your chance of landing that dream job. Everyone should be mindful about what you put out there. Posting a picture or a comment could harm you in ways you don’t realize. Be active but be professionally savvy and aware when it comes to social media.” What Courtney has been up to: Launched my first book “Like. Love. Follow,” which has been very successful in helping us land new clients and brand ourselves within the social media industry. Currently, I am working on scaling the business, hiring new talent, and securing larger accounts/clients. Follow Courtney on Instagram at @courtspritzer

7. Katie Retelle, Educator and Mother: “I became an “expert” observer and asker of questions. I started looking to people who are where they wanted to be in life. Some I knew - others I didn’t. I learned how they accomplished what they did, and used that information as a strategy to “plan” out my own life and to stay aware of the excuses/fears that might hold me back.” What Katie has been up to: Now that spring has finally arrived, I’m looking forward to fun outdoor activities with the kids. I continue to be a full-time mom, and also work with a medical startup, part-time. I also just started a new opportunity – teaching at a bilingual preschool in Riverdale, full-time. My two-year-old daughter, Ella, comes to work with me, which benefits us both. She will be immersed in Spanish, expanding social and cognitive skills. The best part is that I will still be with her and can ease back into my career-related arena. Follow Katie Retelle on Facebook at /Katie.Retelle

This week, use this opportunity to take a peek at or re-read one of these amazing conversations. Or, just take a moment to digest these words of wisdom and think of ways it can help you advance in your career readiness.

Seven things to think about when it comes to what to do while you wait . . .

Happy New Year!

Whether you are starting 2016 unemployed, underemployed or simply pondering something better, each of us can use some enhanced patience and perseverance. Change, especially the kind related to our careers, doesn’t happen overnight. Here are some inspiring stories of people who creatively maximized their ‘wait time.’ image It might just be the thing you need to turn lemons into lemonade and develop or discover your next opportunity.

Kat Cole, President and COO of Cinnabon Working towards to success with a strong work ethic What she did to pay the bills:

Kat began her career as a Hooters waitress in Jacksonville, FL. During her first year of waitressing, she learned every aspect of the restaurant biz.


Her creative grind/hustle:

Kat’s managers rewarded her enthusiasm and strong work ethic by sending her to a training program at headquarters. She dropped out of college to travel the world training employees and became a Vice President by age 26. Seven years later Kat left Hooters to become COO of Cinnabon in 2011. (Kat eventually returned to complete her education and receive her MBA in 2010 from Georgia State).


Jennifer Hudson, Award Winning Singer/Actor You don’t have to finish first to make it big – just be open and take risks What she did to pay the bills:

After working at Burger King in her late teens, Jennifer spent time working far from home. Jennifer worked as a singer aboard Disney Cruise Lines before landing a spot on the third season of American Idol.


Her creative grind/hustle:

Jennifer made it to the top 7 (contestants) before she was voted off the show. She continued to pursue her dream of being a singer/actress and took on the role of Effie White in Dreamgirls (2006), which won her an Oscar and Golden Globe. Two years later, she was awarded a Grammy for her debut album released in 2008. Jennifer remains one of the most successful former American Idols, to date.


Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, Actor and Former Professional Wrestler Ignore the experts’ advice What he did to pay the bills:

After an injury caused his football career to fumble, Dwayne turned to the family business (wrestling) as his plan B.


His creative grind/hustle:

After becoming “Rocky” the wrestler ignored the advice, and even demands, of those in charge to be the “good guy.” Instead he created his self-confident alter ego and ‘The Rock’ – an A-list superstar wrestler, actor and producer was born.


George Lopez, Comedian and Actor Pay your dues and keep laughing all the way to the bank What he did to pay the bills:

Before pursuing a comedy career, George worked an entry-level job manufacturing airplane parts. Years later he landed his first stand-up gig at a Las Vegas casino.


His creative grind/hustle:

George spent 20 years as a virtually “unknown” comic in the standup circuit before being asked to host a morning radio show in LA, which opened up his path to stardom.


J.K. Rowling Bestselling Author The unstoppable power of real talent and creativity What she did to pay the bills:

J.K. was a divorced, single mother who she says, “was as poor as possible without being homeless” when she began writing the famously popular Harry Potter series on a train napkin.


Her creative grind/hustle:

Her first book, Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone was rejected by 12 publishers. Lucky 13 came about because of a publishing exec’s eight-year-old daughter who read one chapter of the book and begged for more. Today the Harry Potter brand is worth $15 billion and Rowling’s books have been translated into 70 languages.


Sheryl Crow, Musician/Singer Even when you get a break – you may have to wait for an even “bigger” one What she did to pay the bills:

After graduating from college, Sheryl worked as a school music teacher – freeing her up to perform on nights and weekends. Later, she was given the opportunity to write commercial jingles for McDonalds and Toyota and even sing background vocals for Michael Jackson’s 80’s Bad World Tour.


Her creative grind/hustle:

In 1992, her original debut album was dubbed “unfit” for release by label execs. She was forced to go back to the drawing board and one year later became a household name when “All I Wanna Do” became a surprise hit.


Colonel Sanders, Entrepreneur, Kentucky Fried Chicken/Franchise Creator Forget age and even money, persistence is the secret recipe for success What he did to pay the bills:

At 65 years old, Harland Sanders was broke, owned a small house and a beat up car, and had just received his first social security check of $99.


His creative grind/hustle:

Sanders used the only thing he did have – an idea. He traveled throughout the south trying to convince restaurant owners to use his popular chicken recipe in return for a small percentage of the sales. He received 1009 rejections before finding the 1010th person to help fund his dream. The Colonel proves that it doesn’t matter how many “no’s” we receive, as long as we get the one and only “yes” that counts.

Everyone needs time to nurture and cultivate their dream. This week, read these and other inspirational stories of people who found innovative ways to make the most of their talents and time waiting for something better. Remember your “big break” is out there if you are persistent, and have perseverance and patience to uncover it.

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Welcome to the Living on Purpose Project

As children we crave structure and discipline. As adults, we need meaning and purpose. But no one tells us how to do it, in part because no two paths are the same. However, two things are universal amongst people of all ages and in various stages of life and success: (1) everyone wants practical ideas to create bigger, brighter next steps, and (2) people who learn to build upon personal lessons and experiences (whether it’s their own or through others’) can generally better navigate their pursuit of happiness, success and purpose.

Sharing our collective unconventional wisdom about life and careers is a simple thing that we all can do. Telling people not just what we do in life, but also why and how we do it, can be the little thing that makes a huge difference in the choices and courses someone makes and follows. Because perhaps what may really make that difference in the road less traveled is connecting with someone who has traveled a similar road before you, and knowing that you’re not alone.

Writing the Living on Purpose Project – a blog and book about finding purpose and doing what you love – is a natural extension of my 15-year work as a marketing and career transition Adjunct Professor, and a perpetual student and teacher of life. The Living on Purpose Project is part of my path to purpose. What’s yours?

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